Clean Fun With Your Vibrator

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The intimate nature of sex toys means that while they are great fun to use you have to be very serious when it comes to cleaning them. It is possible to pick up an infection from a sex toy, but it’s easy to avoid with a little knowledge and common sense.

Most people use their own sex toys and would not consider using some else’s. Indeed in most “conventional” heterosexual relationships where each sex toy is used only by one partner the opportunity to share a sex toy tends not to arise. In gay and multi-partner relationships however you may want to share a vibrator or other sex toy between two or more partners in which case you must be more careful about hygiene than when using toys all to yourself.

Always clean a sex toy before you use it – when you first use a sex toy it has come from a factory, may have been stored for several months, been shipped around the world and end up at your door looking clean but with unseen contamination. Modern vibrators, indeed all sex toys are easy to clean so long as you use the right method.

Always refer to the manufacturer’s instructions for initial cleaning, use and post use cleaning of sex toys. This will avoid damage to your sex toy and ensure that the process of cleaning does not damage the sex toy.

Common sense plays a large part in the cleaning process. If a vibrator is not waterproof be careful not to let water enter the case and if possible remove the batteries before attempting to clean it. If you prefer not to use water and anti-bacterial soap you can use specially formulated sex toy cleaner to ensure your favourite vibrator is clean and as good as new before being secreted in your toy box.

If you really want to ensure your sex toy is clean then some toys made from metal of glass can be immersed in boiling water to sterilise them. This is not entirely necessary so long as they have been adequately cleaned with soap and water but may give some people extra piece of mind. Handling a hot glass or metal object is not without its risks so be very careful and of course consult the manufacturer’s  instructions before attempting this in case such treatment would harm the sex toy. And don’t try  this with plastic sex toys!

We mentioned above that you should clean toys before use, and not just the first use. Some people forget this. If a sex toy is stored in a drawer or bag it can pick up debris and bacteria, even in the cleanest environments. You should therefore clean your toy before use, even if it looks clean.

If you are sharing sex toys you must consider that if you use them after a partner but do not clean them you risk cross-infection should that partner be infected with an STI or UTI. It is possible in the case of dildos and vibrators to use condoms over the sex toy and discard these when one partner has finished with them. However we would recommend a through cleansing between partners – or even better by one vibrator each!

Clitoral Vibrators

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These sex toys come in many shapes and forms and are designed to focus attention on the clitoris which can result in a very strong orgasm in some women.  Many women say that the orgasm they achieve from clitoral stimulation can be far more powerful than a vaginal one but every woman differs.

One of the first vibrators or should I say “massager” to be used for clitoral stimulation was the Hitachi Magic Wand and ever since this product has been associated with clitoral pleasure despite the fact that it’s like taking a sledge hammer to crack a nut.  There are far less “industrial” vibrators out there with far superior operative modes.

Although you can purchase silicone sleeves with various contours, patterns and nubs for manual stimulation which slip over the finger, vibrating clit stims are far more superior and take the work out of achieving an orgasm.  And that has to be good, doesn’t it?

Clitoral vibrators are available in so many variants that it’s hard to mention them all here but these are examples of ones you will typically find and a brief description of their characteristics.

Finger Vibes

These are usually small vibratory units mounted on a silicone ring designed to be worn as the name suggests on the finger.  Because these sex toys slip on to your hand you will find they are easy to direct and you don’t loose your grip on them when the going gets hot.

Occasionally you get additional heads to slip over the vibratory unit with stimulating nubs, ridges and humps to aid pleasure.

Bullets

This type of mini vibrator is usually shaped like a bullet or topedo and are generally made from silicone, ABS plastic or a combination of both.

Some offer multiple vibratory speeds and even functions settings.  Operation is usually via a button which you depress to work through the speeds.  Many are also waterproof designed with bathtime play in mind.

The advantage with the shape and size of a bullet is that it can be discreetly slipped inside panties, bras and stored just about anywhere for a bit of fun on the run.

Massagers

Unlike other clitoral vibrators, these tend to have a shape and form which snuggles against a woman’s most intimate parts.  They are usually formed from silicone for a soft, velvety finish which sits nicely against the skin.

Depending on their size and shape you will find that a massager may cover your labia as well as your clitoris, enabling you to massage the vaginal area.

These types of vibrator are also good to share with a partner, simply place the massager on his perineum and watch his face light up.

Eggs

Can be shaped exactly like an egg or more of a stretched ovoid shape which sits somewhere between a bullet and an egg.  Once again these are a very versatile sex toy as they will sit in underwear or slip between you legs whist sitting at your desk ;-)

They offer everything a bullet does but in a more squat shape and some are specifically designed with a long retrieval wire to be inserted but don’t attempt this without keeping a good hold on that cord or you may find expelling them difficult.

Pocket Rocket

These re usually long and cylindrical in shape with a flat head which delivers the vibrations.  Usually constructed from ABS Plastic they can deliver multi function vibrations and speeds.

Along with the Pocket Rocket you will usually have a set of plastic caps which can be fitted over the top for multiple sensations.  Invariably they will offer nubs, humps and bumps to aid stimulation of the clitoris when in use with the vibratory unit.

Some of the products discussed offer remote control units so you can operate them without being obvious, particularly in public.  Many are whisper quiet so you will be able to walk around the supermarket with them secretly vibrating away.

Additionally a lot of manufacturers are now offering these sex toys as a rechargeable option so you never have to worry about buying batteries.  There is so much variety out there that there is bound to be a mini vibrator to suit your needs.

Remote Controlled Vibrators

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Why would anyone want a remote controlled vibrator? In fact why would anyone want a remote controlled sex toy. After all the whole point of a sex toy is that while you are using it the sex toy is in intimate contact with your body so it’s always in easy reach, right?

Well yes but that’s not the reason for the remote control. There are two reasons for needing a remote controlled vibrator.

The first is to allow you to change the speed and settings of the sex toy without having to reach between your legs and fumble around for the control. If the vibrator has a control pad that can be held in the hand away from the vibrating unit many users will find this infinitely preferable to the blind scrabbling around that can be so off-putting when you’re searching for that elusive setting that will bring you to orgasm. When it comes to anal vibrators (vibrating butt plugs this can be particularly important because of the smaller size of the toy itself which may not allow enough buttons to make control of the toy uncomplicated and because of the position of the sex toy, out of sight, behind the user.

The second is because you may want your partner to control the vibrator. Handing over the control of your sex toy to your partner is a great way to play in the bedroom, or outside. In the privacy of your boudoir you can let them tease and please you with the control unit, giving them the pleasure of controlling your ecstasy and you the pleasure of being controlled by them. Outside your home there are discrete vibrators that slip into a pair of panties (often supplied with the vibrator) and allow your wicked partner to thrill you while you are out with friends, shopping or even to liven up a boring dinner party without anyone knowing. Well, of course nobody will know until you moan in orgasmic bliss and collapse into your desert.

Not all remote controlled toys use a wireless remote control. Some remote controlled vibrators actually have a wired connection to the vibrating unit. While this may seem like a cumbersome and low-cost option there is often a good reason for it. Vibrators, particularly anal vibrators, have a limited space in which to house the batteries which power them. With a wired connection the vibrator can hold its batteries in the control unit making the sex toy more powerful and avoiding the need for the vibrating unit to contain small, sometimes difficult to source and often expensive small format batteries.

So, remote controlled vibrators score on several points:

  • They are often easier to use.
  • Allow you or your partner to control the fun.
  • Can be more powerful and cheaper to run than vibrators with controls on the vibrating unit.
  • They can allow you and your partner to have some really naughty fun outside the bedroom

 

Vibrators For Your Valentine

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One of the things you could buy for your partner for Valentines Day is a sex toy, but beware. There are a number of Valentine/Heart themed, shaped or styled adult toys on the market. They may be sweet and cute and make your partner go “Aaaahh!” but they may not be the best sex toys you could buy.

The warning signs are easy to spot. Primarily, if a vibrator looks like it’s a bit gimmicky or over-complex that might be a sign that the designer/manufacture has let form override function when they built the thing. The name can be a give-away too “Super Sex Orgasm Machine” might be one to avoid, again the supplier taking more time over the branding than over the design and testing of the vibrator itself.

But don’t let that put you off. If you want to buy a sex toy as a Valentines Day gift for your loved one there are plenty of good quality vibrators available at online sex shops that they can enjoy and you can too. A good quality vibrator doesn’t have to cost the earth so long as you buy it from a reputable sex shop either.

There’s lots of advice elsewhere on this site about what to look for and how to choose a sex toy that works and will give your partner pleasure. Just because it’s “that time of year” doesn’t mean that the choice of material from which a vibrator is made is any less important. Quality materials, a good design and a well designed shape count for more than a vibrator being coloured pink and having hearts all over the box.

Maybe this Valentines day it’s time to help her enjoy her G Spot a little more so look for a vibrator with a nice curve that will seek out her pleasure spot and have her writhing in ecstasy on the 14th. Alternatively, as she may well be at work on the 14th of February this year something more discrete like a clitoral vibrator could be just the ticket. You know the sort of thing, something small enough to fit into her handbag and smuggle to the rest room at lunch for a little bit of personal time and a climax thinking of the thoughtful lover who bought it for her.

Whatever you choose don’t let the hearts and flowers get in the way of choosing the right sex toy for her. And remember that flowers will die after a few days and chocolate melts away in a moment a vibrator will keep her cumming and enjoying thoughts of you for much, much longer

 

Vibrations And Vibrators

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Most people enjoy using sex toys but many people don’t actually get as much enjoyment out of them as they might. One of the reasons might be that they have yet to explore and understand their bodies, but this comes with practice and a little research.

What a lot of people don’t realise is that something very fundamental about their sex toys can have a serious bearing on the level of orgasmic bliss derived from a vibrator. Yes, the strength of vibration is important so large and powerful vibrators drive home the stimulation, but frequency plays a part too.

The frequency of vibration in a vibrating sex toy is directly responsible to how the user’s body reacts and therefore the pleasure that the vibrator delivers.

The frequency that pushes your particular orgasmic buttons is as personal as any aspect of a sex toy’s design or construction but there are general rules of thumb that you can use when selecting a toy.

“Deeper” stimulation tends to require a lower frequency of vibration, whereas more sensitive areas need a vibrator with a higher frequency and often a lower, more subtle power.

For example, clitoral stimulation can most often be best delivered by a clitoral vibrator of higher frequency and a gentle touch. Too much power and /or a low frequency will not suit most clitorises, either not resonating in tune with the nerve endings or pounding the clitoris so hard that it loses sensation!

On the other hand a powerful, low-frequency vibrator will be more effective for use internally because then you are stimulating the vagina itself. In fact a powerful enough vibration will give deep and penetrating waves of stimulation throughout the lower abdomen.

So much for constant vibrations – what about “Patterns” of vibrations that are often provided by increasingly sophisticated vibrators? Escalating modes provide an increasing intensity that may smoothly increase and decrease or ramp-up and then drop suddenly. Pulsing vibrator patterns give an exciting staccato beat to enliven the nerves making everything throb and feel alive.

It’s a long way from the simple on-off or twist control vibrators that we all used to know.

Progress is a wonderful thing so take advantage of it and experiment!

G-spot Vibrators

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Before we take a look at the various forms of g-spot vibrator available on the market I will explain to the uninitiated exactly what the g-spot is, where you can find it and how the female orgasm is enhanced by stimulating it.

The g-spot or Grafenberg spot (named after the gynaecologist Enst Grafenberg who discovered it) is situated roughly 1 to 2 inches inside the vagina on the front vaginal wall.  It feels like a spongy pad with numerous nerve endings.

Stimulation of the g-spot can result in an intense orgasm and in some women female ejaculation or as it is more commonly know squirting.  Needless to say g-spot stimulation is a very enjoyable form of stimulation and is readily brought about with the wide range of vibrators on the market.

G-spot vibrators can take on many forms but ultimately have a curved shaft to ensure contact with the vaginal wall and that elusive pleasure zone.  The majority of vibrators are made from silicone which feels comfortable to insert as it closely resembles flesh and warms to the body very quickly.

These vibrators vary widely in shape and design, some resemble the classic phallic shape whilst others are more organically formed and look less like vibrators but all have the g-spotting tip that can work its magic.  Some vibrators may be rechargeable which is probably more appealing for those who wish to enjoy the pleasures toys have to offer whilst fostering green credentials.

But unlike battery powered vibes the rechargeable toys don’t warn when they are running low and can let you down at the last minute whereas with a battery powered vibe you can simply pop out the spent ones and replace them.

These vibrators are available as single or dual stimulation toys which offer a clitoral vibrator built in to the shaft just like a rabbit.  It’s question of personal preference as with all toys as to which will work best for you.

Vibrations come on many levels just as you do, some thrum and throb whilst others resonate at higher frequency, personally I prefer vibrators with escalating modes to give variation of stimulation.  Glass vibrators conduct vibrations efficiently up the whole shaft by their very nature of being hard and provide a firm stimulate to those sensitive nerve bundles.

Some g-spot vibrators are configurable to your personal shape as they house a flexible but firm spine which can be bent to fit you.  Not all women are configured the same just as they aren’t all the same height and as such require variation in form to work best for them and this is the perfect solution.

You know when you have the winning formula because you feel like you’ve been hooked just like a prize catch your vibe will catch your vaginal wall upon insertion and extraction and it feels good.  And if your vibe isn’t quite hitting the spot a slight tilt of the hand can enable the tip to make contact with your g-spot more effectively, it’s a question of playing and trying out different techniques some times.

But overall you should know when you have targeted your g-spot because your initial response to being stimulated in such a way should be an overwhelming desire to take a pee.  You then know that you have hit that sweet spot.  Don’t worry you won’t pee, nature had taken care of that, you shouldn’t be able to pass water when aroused, much the same as guys can’t take a pee when they are aroused.  There is a cut off to the bladder which stops that happening.

So go ahead and experiment with the multitude of g-spot vibrators available and enjoy!

Vibrators Where And How

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No this isn’t an article about where you should put your vibrator! Well Ok, it is in a way but it’s more about the fact that vibrators are designed for many different purposes and knowing what vibrator to use in what situation can be the key to enjoying your sex toys to the full.

A “conventional” vibrator would be shaped like an erect penis, perhaps have one or two speeds, or maybe a twisting base to control those speeds. Fundamentally it is designed for insertion into a woman’s vagina with perhaps a little clitoral stimulation too. With one vibrating engine and apparently designed with little imagination these devices can be fun but are often not the best sex toy especially as you learn about your body.

There are far more designs and applications than most women realise so we’ll try to broadly explain the types:

“Realistic” vibrators: these can be realistic in terms of shape and colour, though sometimes their shape may be the realistic but moulded in bright colours. Their construction ranges from the simple, one material designs in Jelly or other plastic material to the most realistic made from soft skin-light materials with a more rigid core for the most expensive one. Perhaps the ultimate in realistic vibrators are moulded from real (often porn star) erections.

G-Spot Vibrators: Shaped to curve inside the vagina and massage the sensitive pad of tissue on the front of the vaginal wall these vibrators are particularly pleasurable for women who enjoy G Spot orgasms. They tend to be made from more rigid materials to allow pressure to be applied to the G Spot during use.

Clitoral Vibrators: Tend to be smaller and more abstractly shaped than other vibrators being made to stimulate the clitoris. Because of this they can be compact and many would fall into the “discrete” category bellow because of this. Clitoral orgasms can be brought about very quickly by the correct clitoral vibrator so are a big favourite for women who like a “quicky” and the intense sensation that a clitoral climax gives them.

Anal Vibrators: When using a vibrator anally it is essential that you use a suitable vibrator. Many people do not realise that using a normal vaginal vibrator anally is very dangerous. Any object placed in the anal opening can be drawn inside and removal may entail a trip to the emergency room. So if you do want to try an anal vibrator buy one designed for the purpose with a wide base that stops the sex toy disappearing up your ass!

Discrete Vibrators: Suitable for carrying in a handbag but powerful enough to provide a little relief wherever you are small vibrators are available for women on the move. Just bear in mind that while using a vibrator in the comfort of your own bedroom noise is not an issue, using one in a public place, even out of sight might give the game away. Discrete vibrators may be small but even the quietest can have quite a loud buzz!

Panty Vibrators: Often provided with a remote control these vibrators are slipped into a woman’s underwear, sometimes into a specially made pocket in underwear that comes with the vibrator. The wearer or the partner can then operate the vibrator whilst out and about. This can be great kinky fun but the same warning about noise applies to these vibes :-)

Some vibrators may fall in to more than one of the categories above and they are only meant as a guide to help you during the selection of your sex toys.

Clitoral Vibrators

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When people think of vibrators they often think only of those used internally, specifically vaginally, by women. However some women prefer the convenience and speedy climaxes delivered by clitoral stimulation in the form of a clitoral vibrator. It is true that most vibrators can be used to stimulate the clitoris but a vaginal vibrator is both bulkier than a specialised clitoral stimulator and is tuned more to the nerve endings within a woman’s vagina than the super-sensitive bundles of nerves in the clitoris.

Models range from cheap clitoral vibrators to expensive, rechargeable designer models and although a higher price will generally give you a better quality sex toy as with all sex toys every woman will have their own favourites dictated by what their body finds most stimulation.

Clitoral vibrators are easier to transport than a full-sized vibe so are great for a little light relief on the move if slipped into a handbag. They can be a naughty surprise for your partner during impromptu sex, or a way of relieving stress at work if you are that way inclined – though using one in a quiet office is probably not a good idea. Wait for your break periods, LOL!

Many clitoral vibrators are waterproof so can be used in the bath or shower. Because of their size they can be discretely slipped into your panties for hand’s free fun too. With remote controlled models available, some actually built into underwear you can pass the control to your partner and both enjoy the fun.

Power for clitoral vibrators ranges from a tiny button cell, through single AAA size batteries to fully rechargeable models. The latter of course remove the need to obtain batteries for your clitoral vibrator but do need to be charged before use so you will have to wait a few hours after receipt of your new sex toy before you can test it out.

As with other types of vibrators clitoral vibes are commonly made in a number of materials, predominantly ABS plastic, jelly plastic, metal and silicone. Many women find it more comfortable to use a little lubricant with clitoral vibrators to ensure that the sex toy glides over the most sensitive part of their intimate anatomy.

Another application of this type of vibrator is as a general intimate stimulator for men and women. The small size and often high power of these small vibrators make it easy to incorporate them into your love play. In addition to the clitoris they can be used to stimulate nipples, vaginal openings, labia and the anuses of both men and women.  For men particular pleasure can be derived from the use of a clitoral vibrator on the frenulum, perineum and testicles.

A word of caution about stimulating the anus using a vibrator not designed for anal use (i.e. any sex toy not specifically sold as an anal vibrator) – Don’t! You must only use non-anal vibrators externally for stimulation, do not insert into the anus as it is easy for a vibrator to be drawn inside the rectum and removal may necessitate a visit to hospital. If you do want to use an anal vibrator there will be more about this particular type of sex toy on this blog soon.

 

What Is A Vibrator?

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A vibrator is a device that is used for and to enhance sexual pleasure. But it did not start that way … apparently.

The first vibrators were created to help doctors who for years had been massaging the vulvas of women who had been diagnosed as having a condition they called “female hysteria” – the concept of this condition seems incredible today but then it was believed that the uterus of sexually ravenous women would “wander” around her body making her “hysterical”. The treatment was for a doctor to rub the affected woman’s pubic area until the condition abated – one presumes at orgasm. The poor old doctors were suffering from hand cramps and fatigue so the mechanical vibrator was born.

One of the first models was steam powered! However technology has advanced since then and vibrators are now available that don’t require a prescription!

Vibrators resemble dildos in that they are used my men and women, internally and externally, vaginally and anally.

Vaginal vibrators can be straight or curved and some even have an internal spine allowing them to the configured to the owner’s personal taste and internal anatomy. Vibrators can have one or more vibrating motors which in contemporary models are usually powered by electricity, or in at least one case a clockwork motor. Sadly for steam enthusiasts we are not aware of any steam powered vibrators in production today.

The shape of the vaginal (internal) vibrator may be smooth, ribbed, bobby or curved to stimulate the entrance or the G Spot. Sometimes vibrators, like dildos are simply phallic, replicating the male penis from small novelty vibrators to huge scale models of a man’s erect penis – some are even cast from the erections of male porn stars.

The most famous vibrator has to be the Jessica Rabbit Vibrator, now copied by the millions and sold worldwide.

Used externally on the clitoris vibrators deliver a different kind of orgasm completely by stimulating the mass of nerve endings in the clitoris. These vibrators deliver an intense and often lightning fast orgasm and tend to be quite small. Clitoral vibrators are often simply smooth bullets that can be slipped into the underwear of the user and worn outside the bedroom. Remote controlled vibrators, some built into specially made panties can be a great toy for couples, allowing one partner to stimulate the other without even touching them and while other people are present. So long as the vibrator isn’t too loud!

Anal vibrators are used by both sexes to stimulate the anus, rectum and in the case of men to massage the prostate through the anterior wall of the lower bowel. Generic, classically shaped anal vibrators with a bulbous head and wide base can be enjoyed by both sexes and are available in a variety of sizes. P Spot (prostate) vibrators/massagers are specially designed to curve around and press on the front wall of the rectum, massing a man’s prostate. This can enhance a man’s orgasm but even the massage provided by these vibrators is pleasurable in itself.

Vibrators are constructed from wood, glass, metal, silicone, ABS plastic even stone.